The prophet says “There are such mistakes that it will be steps
in the evolution of my people.” Now this doesn't mean go out and
make mistakes, but it means to come to awareness there. If a person can't
cry, they can't really feel the joy of laughing. The events of our lives
are training us, are cooking us. Now coffee is a fruit which represents
ashk, because it totally represents the realm of the heart. In Tassawuf
we have this state called seyri suluk. This journey, from the
beginning to the end, is described with the words seyri suluk.
And so the seyri suluk of the coffee is completely ashk.
Now, coffee, when it grows in a tree, is a fruit covered by a shell.
And then it goes through so many steps. First they take it, break open
the shell, then they roast it, and keep turning it as it's roasting,
the poor seed is screaming out there the whole time. As it's being
roasted, the filthy scents are being burned out of it. And then what do
they do with it? They take it, put it into a grinder, and just grind it.
Just like a mureed in the hands of a murshid gets ground and ground…
And turns into, like, flour. Its color has changed. Its name has changed.
We call it coffee now. But if you just ask that poor coffee up to that
point, how much pain it had to go through – and then you take it
from there, it is not over yet, you put it in water, and then put it under
the fire again. So there the second fire is burning it. Then it starts
to dance, foaming on top, and then the Beloved drinks it.
And that's how ashk is. First it develops in the heart. Just like coffee.
But it's got this shell around it, so in other words there is gaflet,
unawareness enveloping it. So first you have to break that shell open,
and then it's got to darken first in the sun. It's the nazr of the murshid,
when you are seen by a murshid, the look... But still, it is hard, if
you try to bite it, it will break your tooth. Then you put it into the
fire. There, he's put into the love of people. When you enter into the
love of people, you go in with the ego. There you plant your plum tree.
But in the end, you are going to eat the grape. There, after that, you
are put into the grinder. The lessons that the murshid gives, the systems
of living in our lives, so all of these encounters, events, crush you.
There you learn humility, patience, you learn how to be halim and
salim, soft and gentle, you learn sukud, silence. You
learn not to be hasty, and to do everything in its time. Now all of this
is to be crushed with the events in our lives. It's easy to say, but to
live it is really tough, just like that coffee that's being ground between
those two rocks, the heart gets ground there. Then that hard coffee becomes
soft. Then they take you and they put you in the water. But you still
haven't reached kemal yet, you haven't reached full evolution yet. Underneath
you that fire of ashk has to burn. That's when that true ashk has to begin.
And such a compassion develops that it envelops the whole world, all people.
If you hit that person, he'll take out the morsel in his mouth and give
it to you. Ashk brings you to such a state, the state of the Prophet,
of being rahmet alemin, the compassion of the world, is the makam, the
station, of ashk. Every person who lives this ashk will take people under
his wings. That's why the emblem of the Sufi Order is the winged heart,
because they take you underneath your wings. This is coffee. That's why
you all love coffee so much. We always drink coffee after we eat, in small
cups.